Active Listening

October 31, 2013

Today’s Reflection

THERE IS A KIND of humility in being a good active listener. We consent to say what seems obvious in order to let others know that we really care about what they are saying. When we state in our own words what another has communicated, usually it is received as a powerful affirmation. It may seem that this “repetition” contributes nothing, but in practice it helps the speaker to feel both known and accepted. Good listening immeasurably helps to build dynamic and trusting group relationships and to strengthen individual growth in Christ.

And, of course, careful listening to one another is a way of being attentive to God. In group lectio, we have gathered to hear the Word of God. We hear this word in the scripture, and we listen attentively to help one another hear it in our own lives. Another sensitive listener is the best aid to help us hear the Spirit at work in us, as participants in spiritual direction have known for centuries.

– Norvene Vest
Gathered in the Word

From page 54 of Gathered in the Word: Praying the Scripture in Small Groups by Norvene Vest. Copyright © 1996 by Norvene Vest. All rights reserved. Used by permission of Upper Room Books. http://bookstore.upperroom.org/ Learn more about or purchase this book.

Today’s Question

Be intentional about how you listen to someone today, and intentionally listen for the Spirit during your devotional time. Share your thoughts.

Today’s Scripture

Your decrees are righteous forever; give me understanding that I may live.
Psalm 119:144, NRSV

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Saints, Inc.:
This week we remember:
Donald M. Baillie (October 31).

Lectionary Readings
(Courtesy of Vanderbilt Divinity Library)

Habakkuk 1:1-4; 2:1-4

Psalm 119:137-144

2 Thessalonians 1:1-4, 11-12

Luke 19:1-10